I feel like I’m at a standstill…

I say this because I have the capability to design awesome castle walls and really put in some time and effort into my builds, but progress stops me as I realize the more I build the more frames will be lost…I really like this game and I want to keep playing it, each and every biome is unique, the enemies make you think and the overall concept of building your viking empire is what got me hooked because I love all types of mythology and building…but as a builder I just feel like it's a moot point if I can create something but it being burdened by the framerate and optimization, no matter how much I change these setting to work to my advantage, they will be eventually single digits because THATS how much time and effort I would spend on projects. I've made countless unfinished castles because of this and it's upsetting that that's always the factor that stops me from finishing it. To those of you that work through the single digit framerates, props, but with a community based server, not everyone is going to enjoy it in all its glory as their frames reach 5fps. I understand why it happens, it's just upsetting…thoughts? Specs are ryzen 9 5900x rtx 3070ti 64gb ram and 2tb m.2