There's a saying in my language: "A hedgehog was crying, but kept eating/fucking (depends who told you this version) a cactus".
I've been using that one mod that gives you extra slots for armor and food. Not sure if this is the one that was causing problems, because I've used a lot of them tho. What happened EACH time that I died:
a) my grave never showed on the map
b) when I knew the exact same place of my grave, it happened to move in 200-300 m radius of that place, so If I happen to die in a forest or on a mountain, I'm screwed trying to find it
c) armor "disappeared" from the grave. From recycling mod I've figured they didn't disappear, technically they were still on me after I picked up my stuff. Unfortunately, I didn't find a way to get them back, so at least a got a bit of original resourses after recycling these items. Megingjord was that one thing that disappeared too, but you get nothing from the recycling (if you don't use enchantment and this shit), so each time I just sobbed.
Did I stop using mods? Nope. Playing Valheim is a sweet sweet pain, such as life, let's just keep it that way.
So which mods made you cry?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/valheim/comments/vh8u96/i_love_mods/